My point was never about "owning" anything. A good analogy would be a bunch of guys at a bar drunk coming up with a plan to go to an AA meeting just to make fun of the people there. I think I did mention that the ones who come to learn are not the issue. I know that there are many upset nons caused by a "N" in their lives. My point is they have much more forums for people like that then people like us. I don't know about you but I do not go to their places(forums) to give my two cents. So I guess let me be clear, I have no problem with nons who come here to try and understand, just ask waiting4(She loved that). I have a big problem with the ones who come here to pass judgement. Do you not agree that we go on with this daily already enough in our "real" lives and our own minds? All I am saying is we don't need that here. You have your ways and I have mine and I too was diagnosed not just self aware.