Fuzzybear, there are a lot of good books by therapist trained really smart people lime Jeffrey Masson (Against Therapy) and James Hillman

(A HUNDRED YEARS OF PSYCHOTHERAPY AND THE WORLD IS WORSE)

I have a lively interest in PTSD recovery. The PTSD that falls close to my heart is the one that affects people who have to participate in violence. I dont care why they had to. As it looks like I will survive my crisis I will go home,and teach what I know. But may God choke me before I charge money to help those I could help. I will sell pumpkins by the side of the road first.

There are very good cases to be made against healing relationships being paid relationships.