Couldn't agree more!!! NY has to be one of the highest populated N places you could be!!

Don't remember the names here but I have read quite a few posts and am somewhat lost as to where things turned here. I have been around the forum for a little while and have experienced the other circus first(some know which I am speaking of). The one thing that separated this place from the others are the guests. I always felt that this place was really frequented by the "N"s who recognized what they are and were trying other things or just getting to release things they could never dream of doing in real life. Problem is every now and again you get the other side joining in a conversation. Now I do actually like one non here but when others come and try to say things like "How do you enjoy doing that to others" or "you are a mean person" it really aggravates me. If nons want to come here fine, do not come here to post your crap judgments because as I have said before there are some places that are for only us! I get that some want to understand better and im ok with that. Read all you like, try to understand but do realize that if you are not like us it will be nearly impossible to truly understand "us".
Let me post my favorite quote once again:


Well not here my friend!! This is for "us" if you don't like what we have to say(which many will not) than just leave.

A few examples:
You are hurt because a "N" hurt you. Guess what most of us will not care at all.

You are bothered by a "N" at work. Again we don't care.

You wonder why the "N" in your life could do this. Take a wild guess.... Not caring!!!

There are so many places for nons damaged by ns to go so your judgements will never be welcomed here. Probably will get ripped apart by some of the "sharks" here(My non friend's terminology).

On to the reasons why I love it here:

To find others who truly understand you. When you read a post and start smiling because its like that writer read your mind.

To feel like your not alone, that so many others are just like me.

Last but not least:

I am an "N" who would rather be normal. To be able to think clearly and without a reason for gaining why. I really do not want to "gaslight" To create issues just so I can make them better again just for fun. You say how can you be like this and I say F&%K OFF because I didn't ask for it and I would of never picked it(Thanks mom and dad). We are who we are!!!! Most nons talk about the amount of Ns in their lives and the constant complaint's. The nons like this have their issues as well. To be a N magnet should tell you something about yourself. Keep one thing in your mind forever, you will never fix your N. It will all be up to him or her to do. Do not ever expect to be the savior because YOU will never be.

All the best,
Underground

ps
I just had to write a story again. Another page in my upcoming novel!!!