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Old Aug 28, 2014, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom View Post
I think as skies said, resistance is therapy. It's usually unconscious though, and it provides important information to a T about where the difficulties reside and how they came to be. I think it's unfortunate that it's called "resistance" because it has nothing to do usually with a willful refusal to cooperate in therapy. It's more an unconscious pattern of defenses to either self-protect or to order the world to fit the perceptions you've developed over a lifetime.

This. Resistance *is* an unfortunate term. Being told I was resistant made me feel awful. Like, 'I'm trying to help you here and you're just being resistant. You can't even *talk* to someone properly'
I get so angry when I think of it.

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