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Old Aug 28, 2014, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted by lilodian4ever View Post
Also, take the concept of supply n demand. It applies very well to relationships. The more available you are to your partner, the more your supply, and the lower your demand You have to make yourself less available or at least appear less available

Deep down, I know that it is just that simple. Ask any person successful in relationships, and they'll probably tell you that there was a lot of give and take involved ... a dance ... and something I understand very well but will never be able to successfully apply in my own life.

I think we have to learn to not give ourselves fully, right away. Easier said than done !

Right ?
Yeah, I can get with that!
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