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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl
Thanks guys, I think I have a slightly better idea of it now.
Difficult, though. Cause if it's largely unconscious, then it's virtually impossible for me to decide to change it, because I don't know what to change. Need to mull over it some more, and try to come up with a plan of action.
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I don't think you can consciously decide to change it (what is "it," after all?) But you can commit to continuing to engage and to try to not self-censor. But this is only possible if you really trust in your bones that such vulnerability won't be used against you. The rocky road you've had with your T makes that more of a challenge. Give it some time. It doesn't need to be all or nothing.