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Old Aug 28, 2014, 04:38 PM
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I have to admit, I too am just a bit confused. You married this woman after knowing her...what, twenty minutes?? It just seems you would have known she lacked conversational / interpersonal skills when you were 'courting' her, if in fact, you bothered to do that. It also appears your criteria for marriage is that she be beautiful, as that is what you've stated she has going on for herself right now, and therefore should be able to find another person to marry once you've done with her.

Whatever happens, you are doing her a great disservice to put the failings of this entire situation on her shoulders. Example: are you unable/unwilling to cook? Have you asked or talked to her about HER interests?

I wish I could be more supportive, but honestly, I think the person in this situation in need of the MOST support is the unborn child. And trust me, once it's born, you will be supporting it for the next, at least, 18 years...and more likely the rest of your life.

In future, you might want to create a little questionnaire for your fiancé's to answer before you marry again, to prevent a repeat of the rather tragic situation.
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