I'm pregnant but don't feel anything. I've changed my lifestyle to be healthy for the baby, and I'm in a position where it's "good" to have a baby, but I am not excited even though I technically was trying to have a kid. I cant imagine being a mother, I'm way too selfish. People say congrats and act like I should be celebrating. I have no feelings at all. I have no maternal instinct it seems... Today they located the heartbeat on an ultrasound, I felt like I should be happy, but I was terrified. Is this normal at all?