I went out with this boy for 2 years and at the time I wad going through a tough time with my family, and as a result was really depressed. I broke up with my boyfriend as I couldn't handle a relationship being this mentally unwell. I eventually pulled my self back together over the course of 6 months and I wouldn't really consider myself depressed anymore. I am not talking to him again as we spoke about maybe seeing each other again if i got myself better and he had since had a girlfriend but it didn't work out because he didn't feel she loved him like I did. But the problem is in feeling a little bit low again, is it possible that he in himself is making me ill? Even though he is lovely to me.