I do not do well with insensitivity. It is a trigger for rage for me. My impulse is to cause harm to the person so that they can bleed just like I am from their judgmental behavior. Its like a double slash with being judgmental in the first place, and in the second doing it over something you are struggling with - the last thing you need is a slap in the face.

I refrain most of the time from lashing out now, but not always...