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You feel the need to ask permission to masturbate with your own body for your own pleasure? Does he own your body? Does he also ask you permission before he masturbates?

Rhapsody I am glad that you are so happy. I just think it is difficult to universalize this to everyone.

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It is not really a matter of asking permission, but rather a matter of HONOR & RESPECT for the union we both entered into, until death us do part, as husband and wife.... the two becoming one.

Every action either one of us does has a reaction with in our marriage... and IF I am always masturbating with out being with my husband then I will not need him as much, nor will I be available to him when he has a sexual need - for my sexual needs will have already been meet by an automatic sex toy (or hand) and not that of my husband.

BTW - this works both ways in my marriage, for we are one.... and no we don't ask each other for permission every time we wish to masturbate - rather it has already been talked about between us and what is acceptable has already been determined and agreed upon by BOTH of us.

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Please keep in MIND that I NEVER said this is how is it for everyone (no generalization) was ever done by me..... I just stated my opinion on this matter as asked by the original poster.
As with any post here on PC - we will have very different opinions stated on any given subject and then it is up to each individual to take what they will from the replies and leave the rest.