For me I have to have a female T. First male T/pdoc I had were terrible. Last male T I had went for a hug and I put him down flat on the ground. Just freaked the hell out. I might have flinched if it had been a female maybe even pushed her back a little but a guy hugging me when I feel vulnerable and it's just not good. Fortunately he had no hard feelings. Said it was his fault he should have asked instead of just reacting and giving me a hug(especially in light of what we were talking about). Soooo we decided I should see a female T. The only complaint I have with female Ts is in my experience they are more emotional. Haven't had one yet that hasn't cried at some point while we were talking.
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