Welcome to PC.

I am sorry that you have had these experiences. You have every right to be annoyed. How do you know that they would never say the same things to others? The statement sound like a cliche in the first instance and a lack of empathy and the second sounds like they don't have a life. Therapists can be a strange bunch. Unfortunately you found a couple of the strange ones.
It may feel personal but it's their brand of personality conflicting what seems to be very rational and sane you.

There are good doctors and therapists and psychiatrists out there. It took me a long time to find a connection with Therapist as well as a p'doc. I knew when I had found the right ones for me because I could breathe. They make sense and they know what they are doing.

You never know...... maybe third time lucky? Please try not to let these experiences stall your progression on the road to being heard. We will always listen too. You are not alone