I've gotta wonder forgiveness at what cost? Feelings of self worth go down the drain.
It's like with kids, make a mistake, receive consequences, yet, it's bound to happen again, in certain scenarios.
I believe in love. I believe in being cherished and honored, respected, treated with dignity, like I matter. Lust is lust, if a person can't place themselves with self control, I don't know if that's love or convenience.