Why did you ask him if you didnt really need it? It sounds like a set-up, a trap. Like you are really mad at him. I think he is reacting to how you REALLY feel. "Too honest" is kinda bogus. Your butt looks big in those jeans - im just being honest! I dont blame you for being mad at feeling like you cant depend on him, but maybe you have to just tell him that, instead of saying it doesnt matter? Idk.