So my partner is challenging me to talk to her about what I think about her. Normally I do this with touch and also occasionally with gifts. I don't like talking about anything deep, it makes me want to leave the room and spend time by myself.

I think she wants to hear the 'L' word.

It's hard to say that I love her because I don't know what that is, and I don't know that anybody does.

I think the best I can say is that she is important to me and that I enjoy being with her. Is this enough?