Thanks for your words. I agree 100% that my parents focus should be my sisters health. But I guess that the lack of accountability to which they hold her is astounding to me. Being the child who I guess it seemed no matter what I did itt wasnt good enough-I have always been held in the highest accountability as far as my family is concerned. I even said that to them that I have always been upfront and straightfoward whether iwas wrong or right and took responsibility for my actions. I just dont get how everyone else has excuses for their action ...ie your dad is old and set in his ways.....your sister has mental problems etc..