How wonderful to find a discussion on being an empathy. I was diagnosed at the age of 19as being highly aware of other peoples feelings, and yes it is exhausting. It has also led me into some really bad relationships , as I hold on until I am exhausted and can no longer function. I am currently involved with a sociopath and have tried on several occasions to break free , but it's easier said than done , as sociopaths are like bright lights to a moth , for an empath.