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Old Aug 29, 2014, 05:20 PM
JaneTennison1 JaneTennison1 is offline
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I think rejection and anger are very close together, you made yourself vunerable in what you told T and then you asked for a hug only to be knocked back. That was brave of you to do and I'm sure it hurts like anything to be told no. It might bring up all kinds of feelings to be rejected. I think that's good. Write to T, journal these feelings out. Be angry and hurt and upset but know it might have more to do with how open and vulnerable you felt to disclose to T.

I know you feel like quitting but instead work out how you feel about it and listen to how he feels about it. T's are human and they have boundaries. Some hug and some don't, that is ok but your feelings of hurt are valid too. Please try and use this chance to channel how you feel, I hope you go back lots can be done with anger.
Thanks for this!
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