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Originally Posted by annsmithallison
We've been together for 7 years high school sweethearts, we are now engaged. We are each other first. I found out two weeks ago that he was talking to a girl from his job and they kissed. I questioned him about the text messages I read this information from and he said it was only a game. That he didn't care about her. He has been apologizing since then. I am scared that if we do get married he will do even worse. So it is hard to get over what happened since I have been faithful all these years.
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Are you utilizing pre marital counseling opportunities? Planning for weddings is exciting, but planning for a marriage with a level of distrust isn't.
How far into the planning are you, is it too locked in to postpone? If he's cheating, and you are financially locked in and need to call it off, there's legal options. Don't feel trapped by this history, and idealism of hs sweethearts.
