I think I will leave the "virgin advice" to someone else, as I honestly think the whole "waiting until marriage" is completely crap (sex is an important part of life and a relationship, you want to know that part works before you make a commitment that serious) and I realize it doesn't really apply to you as you have not had the chance.

I do not think you should let it get to you, though. And - the vibrator issue - your friends have no idea what they are talking about! Enjoy yourself! You deserve it, and your body NEEDS the release. And, women, let's be honest - most of the best sex we have, isnt it with ourselves? I know it is for me, and for a lot of my friends. Sex with a guy is great, it feels good, and it is great for intimacy and emotional self-worth. But, objectively speaking, sex in itself is often just as good with "Yourself" or a vibrator. Your should not feel ashamed or doubt, you should give yourself the release you need and deserve. It also learns you what you like and don't like and connects you more with your body if you do it often. Recommended!