I've had a proud of stepping away moment, before.
I had a discussion with my best female friend, recently. Discussing the plight of single women and how gun shy single men seem, due to horrific experiences. How much more difficult the dating scene has become, because of it.
I'd feel a bit confused, if a man drove that forty miles, out of his way, to discuss furthering a relationship, then to not see a little more aggressive pursuit (non violent aggressive, but more active displays might be the better expression. ) The whole dating scene has become utterly chaotic, due to fear. Who doesn't want to be the last person thought of, at night, and the first upon waking? The busyness of the rest of the day seems moot, if those two key times are added and addressed.
Right now, he's finding himself in, what do you want from me territory.
Just keep cool, but no sense putting all eggs in one basket lest he crosses that threshold.