(((((((((Jinny))))))))))
You and me both!!!!!! I always manage to make people upset when I speak, too. So whenever I speak, it's like I'm walking on eggshells because if I don't carefully analyze and measure everything I say in just the right wording, with just the right tone-somebody is going to be offended.
That's in every aspect of my life. People are so sensitive. I keep thinking that I'm the only one who takes things to heart but EVERYONE seems to have a sensitive heart. We're all so fragile. Not just here, IRL too.
Jinnyann, you're not alone. From what I understand almost every person feels like they're always making someone upset whenever they speak.