well my wife is schizoaffective and I am Bipolar also. We make our relationship work being there for each other when we need a helping hand. She recognizes when I'm in a bad way. as well as me comforting her when she needs it. It's a two-way street.
I am sorry your boyfriend won't speak with you. If you write a letter do you think he will read it? Just a thought.

Anyway welcome to the club