[QUOTE=lynda.danhi;3968071]Teacake....you can't possibly want your son to suffer like you do. He is your son not your savior. Your answers are your responsibility with the support of professionals. Let your son have his ordered life, don't take that from him. Look to yourself too do the work necessary to achieve health. You'll feel empowered and lose those dependency issues.

I dont have dependency issues. I have ptsd and im broke.

What IS rhis savior thing. Ex used to fling himself through the house crying "i can't be a savior!" I was raised without religion. He was an altar boy. What did they do to him?