If that doesn't work out, what about being an in home day care provider? You mention babysitting, might not seem like much. Will he contribute more around the home, so that you can get to working outside of the home? There's a flip side, to this. Are pediatric visits split down the middle? School meetings? Will there be a sharing of call outs for sick children? And daycare costs? Partial from you potential check and partial from his check, correct?