Money and everything involving money would be split down the middle, but...I have to do everything that involves the kids EVERYTHING. And thats why I havent started work sooner, because he doesnt help find a sitter for them if needed and hates leaving the house when he isnt working, so Ive been stuck trying to do all of that myself. And its hard to find a sitter if I dont have money to pay, and I dont drive so there is the problem of how will I get to work, how will I get home. And who will be here to take the girls to school and pick them up. Like I have logical reasons for not having worked already, and the kids are a big part of that. He acts like if he is paying for everything he shouldn't have to worry about anything else...dont get me wrong, he is a good dad but not when it comes to the more hands on stuff. I also have therapy once a week on top of all that per his request so its just really hectic, if I could find a good legitimate stay at home job things would be great...