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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
I was such a fool, I had great therapy and painful feelings so I just left. And my T can't handle my feelings but was in therapy for more then two years, I don't want to start again it, I left when I needed help yet, I said- it's not therapy what happens between us and now he uses this sentense all the time- it wasn't therapy.
I hate myself for saying this.
Many people love their Ts but they work through it but I just left.
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Sounds like your t couldn't handle your feelings- it's about his lack of skill, not your feelings for him. A good t knows how to deal with this sort of transference. It is unfortunate for us that we get so attached to these poor t's before realizing too late they are not skilled enough to treat us.