he is mind-controlling you. you're one step ahead of what he does.

i think you are in a really unhealthy situation and i worry about your children being subjected to all that is going on NOW, not later. they would see a happier mommy, would they not, if you saved yourself?

you've got someone who is mean, small-minded and possibly cheating on you. and you're going to let him play these games with you? woman, think about it. really think about it. xoxoxo pat