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Did you meet this person online - dating site? If that is the case - many times people are checking out all the possibilities...that could explain why is interested one minute and not the next and then on again. Do not be held hostage to his whims....try not to analyze it all - do not have expectations. If he contacts you and you feel like setting something up do so...if he bails out again - whatever the excuse is, I would forget about him - unless you can stay in the moment and just enjoy the time without thinking all about the future.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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