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Originally Posted by brainhi
Did you meet this person online - dating site? If that is the case - many times people are checking out all the possibilities...that could explain why is interested one minute and not the next and then on again. Do not be held hostage to his whims....try not to analyze it all - do not have expectations. If he contacts you and you feel like setting something up do so...if he bails out again - whatever the excuse is, I would forget about him - unless you can stay in the moment and just enjoy the time without thinking all about the future.
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Yes, we did meet online. I hadn't checked before you mentioned it, but he was last online the night after our second date. So, he probably is still chatting with other women and/or making plans with them. It's early yet, so this is reasonable. I actually hid my profile after he disappeared the first time (just thought the online thing might not be for me) but didn't deactivate it. You are 100% right, I'm the one who is responsible for how I feel in this case. Sometimes the little hamster in the cage in my brain works overtime...best I get control of it and myself. Thank you for the reminder.