Just curious. Have you ever met your therapist in real life - on the street - outside of a session? What was it like?
I have a few times - we live in the same town.
First early on in my therapy she was at a wedding reception for a mutual friend. At that time it was weird and I didn't quite recognize her at first. It took me by surprise. I barely remember this. She remembered it though and found it a useful opportunity to see me in a social setting. (ouch)
Once I saw her at the gym. That was weird too - I mean what do you say? What can you talk about?
Then just last week, I was at the library reading on the lawn and I saw her drive up. This time I saw her first and waved her down. It was much more natural this time and we chatted briefly about why I was waiting there and what she was looking for. Today in session she said it was pleasant to see me at the library. (It happened that it was a good day for me that day.)
Anyone else have a story?
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W.Rose


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