A friend of mine who says I'm his friend but wants to be out of friend zone. He has seen many troubles in life and even today his life is tragic. This isn't any excuse for him to want to have sex with me. But, I'm so confused as I don't want to have sex with him but then I don't want to leave him on his on in the phase of life when he needs a friend support.

What confuses me is that is he manipulating me? I'm a caring human being who even in past has given herself for others happiness. It hurts me because I'm just abused by people but still I can't change who I'm.

Coming back to current situation. This guy claims that he gets peace being with me, that I'm only person he can share his feelings with. Yes, he does share about him, his family and his problems. He also listens to me. I like hanging out with him. But, problem is most of the time he talks about how much he wants to have sex with me, about the time we spend physically close. He will hold me tight and wouldn't allow me to move away. Many a times we are naked. I don't want to have sex and that is why we haven't had it yet.

I tell him that I can be his friend but I can't have sex with him. If that is all he wants, then I'm wrong person. He gets annoyed saying I think that way about him. But, I've my reasons for it. I tell him let us meet out, he wants to be in he bed always. If I call him for help, most of the time he wouldn't come giving some excuse and then claiming that I'm too demanding. On the other hand, he will adjust for everything and anything when he wants the coziness. If we talk he will take it to the how much he wants me. He never talks on how much he like to be with me or talk to me.

I want to ask, does he really like to spend time with me or all he wants is sex and for that he is manipulating me? If there is a girl you like, you love, do u always talk about how much u want them or are there any other topics that u talk about too?

Please help me in understanding