Hi Lexi,
I too lived with my grandparents after my parents divorce. Well, it was more of a shuffling I mainly stayed with them until I was 11 and then lived with just my biological father for awhile. Anyways, I am sorry you are having such a tough time. Just having all the turmoil of the parents divorce and dealing wiht your grandparents sounds like a lot to deal with. I don't know much about alcohol fetal syndrome, so I can't help you out there. I have been through a string of labels though---remember the labels are not you--you are a human being not a label.