I play bass guitar for a cover band with some friends. But then my family always bring this up, and it annoys me. I find I'm the centre of attention too much, but that's a digression.

anyhow, i was at my aunt's house and my brother it up as he always does, and I said "eh? Well at least I have hobbies! You just work and spend time at home, I'd rather be happy and have a varied life than a monotonous bore!" He shut up, and since then I haven't spoken with him. My mother said to me in private the following day it was not on what I did, but then I didn't and still don't care....don't make me the centre of conversation all the time. I'm no more special than anybody else. See, a simple solution to this "dilemma". And this has been happening for YEARS, so I reckon I have a right to be angry.

Though was I wrong, I just want to see a balanced perspective if possible.