Stopdog. See thats the issue. You are telling MY need is not a need. And yes unless I had a ride and anothet person to sign the release the dentist refused to do the procecure... so with your logic. Then I reslly didnt need my teeth fixed... the fact is I had a perceived need. Its comments loke what uou just said that make people afraidcto ask othets to help get theit needs met.. just because you petceive it as not a need does not meen it was not a real need for me or the struggle that I went through in myself before I could get the courage to ask someone else to help feel the beed I had

You can think you dont have any needs you cant take care of yourself but that is just a form of denial and a way to protct from being vulnerable to even adnit you have a need

It takes a lot of courage to even admit you have a need let alo e re as lizw thT we may have to depend on domeone else to meet a need. For instance it took me teo years to even go to the dentist because that meant I needed someone to take care of my teeth. We need doctors etc. Whether you want to admit it or not. And needs when met by othets leave us feeling very vulnerable