Oh you are so sweet Sabrina. You don't have to know just what to say......
what you said was perfect.
It's one thing to fear for one's own safety-- that is hard in itself.... but then to also fear for your child's safety.

I find I'm going numb quite a bit... not sure if that's so good but at least I'm not stressing out my son this way.
It's so kind that you understand -- thank you so much.
mandy