Update: 08/31/2014

I've been applying the advice on here, and being more mindful. The first day, didn't go so good, but the next it wasn't too bad. Each day, I work harder at minding my own business, not analyzing everything to death, ignoring people who want to make trouble, and keeping focused on the tasks and not paying attention to what neighbour lady is doing.

I totally was in the zone of keeping mindful and being observant of what I was doing. I noticed enough that neighbour lady was outside in her backyard, but I continued to be mindful of my day, and I enjoyed it too. I didn't give her any attention by looking her way... I just kept doing my yard work.

The first day of being mindful and not annalyzing her... wasn't good at all. I got caught up in her prancing around and being in my zone. When we looked up at each other... she had that neighbourly glare. I was in not a good mood, so I glared back at her. Ugh! I lost my power and walked right into that one. I'm sure that made her day, that she got to me.