We finished up marriage counseling awhile ago. Other than that he hasn't been in therapy for bit. The marriage counseling really helped for a few months but he has totally backslid in his communication. Example: Yesterday I went to make a sandwich and there was no bread. I went to the living room and said "Honey if you use the last of something please tell me so I know to get more." This elicited a five minute pity party on how he's an effing loser that screws everything up he touches and from now on he just won't eat anything in the house. He sucks and from now on he'll just go root through garbage to eat.

He's been promising me for 3 months now that he will get back in therapy but guess how much progress he's made? Absolutely none. So I gave him a list of Ts and shrinks that take medicaid so all he had to do was call. Apparently that was still too much work and he lost the list. It will probably take him thinking I'm going to leave again to get him to actually make an appointment. His doctor has been filling his psych meds so as long as he's still getting them I don't think he has much motivation.