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Old Sep 01, 2014, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted by 8thstreetbungalow View Post
I have a criminal background. It is just a misdemeaner for harrassment thats all. But the problem is, it involves me stalking a girl. It was a very weak time in my life I highly regret it and was not proud of my decisions.

Well the problem is when i try dating or meeting girls. I often get asked the whole "have you comitted any crimes?" or what not. Or they do a background check and find out. They talk to me about the charge ask what my conditions were for release and so on and so forth. I was given 2 years level 2 probation with no jail time. I was released from probation after 2 months as the cops thought the whole charge wasn't even fair to begin with. That is just part of the issue, my stalking was connected to a psychotic break. So not only do i have to admit to stalking someone, but right off the bat i basically have to start describing my illness.

What should i do? Makes dating very very difficult.
Just keep socializing, the right person should love you being who and what you are. Hoping that you will find her soon. Don't feel bad about the past, nobody is perfect and we all learn from our mistakes. Good luck buddy!