**sexual content**

This may not be normal in a marriage but I began doing this after my babies where born. If my husband really wanted some lovin and I was exhausted I'd just roll over and let him do what he needed to do. I thought this was okay because it kept him happy and I got to sleep. Well after time and after time it began to be the only time we were intimate...when I was asleep (not really considered intimate, but you know what I mean). I'd just shrug it off as a schedule mishap and let him do what he needed to do.

Now it's gotten really bad. I'm seriously concerned about this but find it entirely to embarrassing to discuss else where. My husband has completely cut off regular one on one lovin with me sleeping. I think he prefer it that way....actually I know he does.

A few really concerning situations happened that made me feel disguised and violated. I told him I felt this way and he laughed at me. Is this normal or is my feelings correct on this?