I think its like tennis. If you only play with people worse than you, wtf, how are you ever going to learn? Youll never get a volley going. Youll spend the whole time serving and chasing down balls as the other person misses it. Whereas if you play with someone who can help you develop your forehand and your backhand, then when you meet another tennis player IRL, get my drift? Thats how the synapses work. You dont want to marry Jimmy Connors, you just want him to coach you for a while.