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Originally Posted by stopdog
I would never look to a therapist for modeling anything. I know some others do and great, just not for me. I might can buy the synapse thing, but not the idea of modeling. Plus I was just giving my own answer.
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Your answer was right, though. A part of it is changing how our brains are wired.
For those of us who only had abusive relationships modeled and who don't know how to interact with people in a healthy manner, having a healthy person show us is incredibly valuable. I know I have no freaking clue what a "normal" non-abusive relationship is like. And so it matters greatly to me that my T would model that and show me by her relationship to me.