to me this is very black and white if he loves me will make room for me and if not he doesn't. I don't really fancy the idea of making nice with other women that I likely have nothing in common with. Either makes me feel like I matter or he is bluntly honest that I don't and we go from there.

I work Monday through Friday 11a-7:30p. He usually comes over one night a week but I seldom get home until 8 and I like to be in bed by 1am