I read somewhere that people are more likely to quit because of ostracism than harassment. Wow, it is better to be harassed than ignored! I guess being ignored is a very primitive experience.

I used to go to this diner all the time -- like for ten years. I thought the waitress hated me because i was always bugging her for a refill on my Diet Coke. When it closed she said it had been a pleasure serving me! I was astonished! And pleased. Wow, all that worry for nothing!