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Originally Posted by Leah123
My first question would be what harm is there for you in being "too" invested?
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So, I think the test is: are you functioning worse because you depend on her, or do you have good reason to believe you will? Is she helping you with what you want help with? Or, is there evidence of actual potential harm: is she encouraging you not to make any decisions without her, to isolate from other people or to stop functioning in any healthy ways?
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I guess I'm most concerned about blurring the line between my "real world" and the world that exists in that room. Feeling close to someone that isn't actually in a relationship with me will certainly fall flat somewhere along the line.
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