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Originally Posted by ThingWithFeathers
I feel the same way! It's as though just an automatic behaviour takes over. I also couldn't imagine showing anger in front of... well... anyone, not even my T. Does your T know? Can your T tell when you're being congruent? Might be a useful thing to talk about.
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Yes, T knows, at least to some extent. It's just extremely hard to talk about it, because it involves him. I have no experience at all of talking about a relationship with the other person in that relationship - it doesn't happen in real life. I don't know how much he actually knows, or whether he can tell when I'm doing it more (I guess I'm almost always doing it to some degree.)