I'm interested how it has gone with you. Are you in a similar or same situation, and if yes, how is it going with you?

For me to get my story out, it would divulge too much personal info, and take too long, but the nutshell is:

I've recently started talking to an ex of mine from I think 6 years ago. It was OK at first, then got rocky when she started digging up the past again. It has just recently settled down again, as we got some stuff said. I think she just had a lot of stuff she needed to get off her chest, which she previously didn't have much of a chance to do because I wanted nothing to do with her.

In a way, it's nice to let go some of that hate, but it's most definitely not forgiveness; it's really just time... almost feel a bit lighter, though. I loathed her for a long time, but as time goes on, it fades and I guess I'm at the indifference stage, ... not sure.

I keep her at a significant distance; we only talk online, despite her insistence on wanting to meet up. I sense a meet coming up at some point... I know I don't want that; I'm not sure how to even deal with that. She seems to have this idea that's it's perfectly fine to be contacting your exes and hanging out with them, even though she's married with a kid... sorry, guys, but it seems a tad strange to me. Her husband knows and apparently doesn't care, as long as she's happy, which in itself is a little disconcerting.

Any advice for me?