Strikes me as a bit insensitive of him... believe me, I would gladly say more if I didn't think it'd be rude. xD You DO work; you're a full-time mother looking after the home while he's off at work; bit cliché but it happens and it works, especially given your issues. Your issues are exactly why I'm worried about getting into a serious relationship, especially now that I'm older and I'm into the whole "settle down" type thing. (minus kids... not for me) Good luck.