The question you should ask is rather: Is it a big deal if a girl DOESNT want to give a blowjob? Because I think it's a dealbreaker for a lot of guys.

Personally, I'm not really a fan of giving BJs. It's not that I am bad at it, mostly gotten "good reviews" (except with one guy when I was really inexperienced, but he was nice enough/selfish enough to give me directions). It's just that... I don't know. I actually find a bit gross. Let's be honest, genitals are not very nice to look at. And, well, it grosses me out that they taste differently (not just the sperm, the actual penis). Like, makes you think their hygiene is way different, or stuff like that. And... I don't know. It's just sort of gross. The turn-on of it, and the good part of it, is the reaction you get. But I try to avoid doing it for as long as possible, but guys insist on giving ME oral (sigh), so I feel like I have to return the favour. I don't mind receiving it, but if you're not good at it, sticking whatever in there works much better - for me, at least. Besides, makes me self-conscious. I'd rather just everyone kept their mouths out of it. :P

If you have any pointers on how to dislike it less, then feel free to give them to me. And if you know any guys who DON'T like oral, please fax them to me ASAP.